Vol 4. The Empress of Gems: Why Tourmaline is Your True Token of Commitment
Let’s be real for a second: the world is spinning at lightning speed, and sometimes it feels like we're all racing to keep up. And while everyone’s out here talking about boundaries, work-life balance, and self-love, I’m over here rolling my eyes. As if there’s some magical formula to balance work, life, and everything in between. (Jay Shetty nailed it when he said there’s no such thing as true balance when you account for hours in a day.) But here’s the truth: it’s not about getting everything in perfect harmony; it’s about knowing when to say no. And this is where the empress of gems, tourmaline, steps in.
I’ve been secretly collecting tourmaline gems for years—hoarding them like treasures, knowing that one day, they’d have their moment to shine. Well, that moment is now. Because if there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s that life isn’t going to slow down for you. Responsibilities aren’t going anywhere, and the demands of career, motherhood, and just existing in this chaotic world will never magically vanish. But what can change is how we approach all of it.
Tourmaline is more than just a gemstone. It’s that gentle reminder we need in our lives. It’s the empress—calm, composed, knowing when to step back, and when to step up. Not in the "I’m going to do it all" way, but in the "I’m going to do what matters right now" way. It’s the gem that tells you it’s okay to take a break, to find joy in missing out, to preserve your energy so that you can show up when it truly counts. Because let’s face it—balance is about saying no and finding space to breathe.
Tourmaline: The Gemstone for the Real World
While we all love the idea of hustle and flow, the reality is that the constant grind wears you down. You feel it, I feel it. And then we spiral—juggling everything, feeling anxious, like we’re constantly one step behind. Here’s the kicker: we will always have responsibilities. But if we don’t protect our inner strength, how can we be present when it really matters?
Tourmaline, with its deep, rich colors and calming energy, is like that trusted friend who always knows when you need to breathe. It's the JOMO (joy of missing out) wrapped around your wrist, reminding you that it’s okay to step back and regain your strength.
And then, there’s the pink tourmaline. When I came across that shocking pink, it stopped me in my tracks. No exaggeration—it made me pause, even if just for a split second. Nature, in all her brilliance, forced me to stop, admire, and just be in the moment. And that’s the magic of this gem. The way it commands you to pause and soak in its beauty, even if life is moving a million miles an hour. The range of colors this stone offers is a little reminder of life’s spectrum—the ups, the downs, the pauses, and everything in between.
That pause could be a few seconds to admire its beauty, or it could be the recharge we all desperately need. Tourmaline teaches us that it’s okay to step back, reset, and then step forward with purpose. It’s the gem that’s been waiting for the right moment to remind you: preserving your inner strength isn’t selfish—it’s essential. So, take that pause, admire the beauty, and remember that life’s best moments happen when you’re present for them.
Tourmaline isn’t just a pretty face; it’s your token of commitment. Commitment to yourself. Commitment to showing up for the people and moments that truly matter. Because balance? It’s not about juggling—it’s about pausing, appreciating, and showing up with everything you’ve got when it counts.
And tourmaline? She’s the empress that helps you do just that.
I’ve been secretly collecting tourmaline gems for years—hoarding them like treasures, knowing that one day, they’d have their moment to shine. Well, that moment is now. Because if there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s that life isn’t going to slow down for you. Responsibilities aren’t going anywhere, and the demands of career, motherhood, and just existing in this chaotic world will never magically vanish. But what can change is how we approach all of it.
Tourmaline is more than just a gemstone. It’s that gentle reminder we need in our lives. It’s the empress—calm, composed, knowing when to step back, and when to step up. Not in the "I’m going to do it all" way, but in the "I’m going to do what matters right now" way. It’s the gem that tells you it’s okay to take a break, to find joy in missing out, to preserve your energy so that you can show up when it truly counts. Because let’s face it—balance is about saying no and finding space to breathe.
Tourmaline: The Gemstone for the Real World
While we all love the idea of hustle and flow, the reality is that the constant grind wears you down. You feel it, I feel it. And then we spiral—juggling everything, feeling anxious, like we’re constantly one step behind. Here’s the kicker: we will always have responsibilities. But if we don’t protect our inner strength, how can we be present when it really matters?
Tourmaline, with its deep, rich colors and calming energy, is like that trusted friend who always knows when you need to breathe. It's the JOMO (joy of missing out) wrapped around your wrist, reminding you that it’s okay to step back and regain your strength.
And then, there’s the pink tourmaline. When I came across that shocking pink, it stopped me in my tracks. No exaggeration—it made me pause, even if just for a split second. Nature, in all her brilliance, forced me to stop, admire, and just be in the moment. And that’s the magic of this gem. The way it commands you to pause and soak in its beauty, even if life is moving a million miles an hour. The range of colors this stone offers is a little reminder of life’s spectrum—the ups, the downs, the pauses, and everything in between.
That pause could be a few seconds to admire its beauty, or it could be the recharge we all desperately need. Tourmaline teaches us that it’s okay to step back, reset, and then step forward with purpose. It’s the gem that’s been waiting for the right moment to remind you: preserving your inner strength isn’t selfish—it’s essential. So, take that pause, admire the beauty, and remember that life’s best moments happen when you’re present for them.
Tourmaline isn’t just a pretty face; it’s your token of commitment. Commitment to yourself. Commitment to showing up for the people and moments that truly matter. Because balance? It’s not about juggling—it’s about pausing, appreciating, and showing up with everything you’ve got when it counts.
And tourmaline? She’s the empress that helps you do just that.